If you and your partner want to connect, but you're not sure where to start.

This simple guide, First Time Nail, should show you how to enjoy pain-free nail!

1. Prepare the anus! Obviously, we're about to enter the butthole, so we need to think about dog poop. If you're a man, you might want to consider flushing out your butt to reduce the chances of a mess. If you want more information, we have a great guide to anal irrigation. However, if you've had solid stools lately, you're probably fine.

2. Try different stationary positions. Now you need to choose a location. It all depends on your anal sex experience and whether your priority is comfort, pleasure or submission.If you want comfort and less pain, I recommend sleeping in the dog position. Get him on all fours and gently enter from behind. This man may need to kneel on some pillows to adjust her crotch height to fit his anus. Overall, dog style offers easy access, control and decent fun.If you want to get the most out of it, a prostate orgasm is key. Usually, the best position is for him to stand, but bend over or lean against the table and wait. The nail should come in at this Angle, with the "cock" bent slightly upwards. It could make him shoot through his anus.

If you like the idea of obedience and power exchange, then I suggest you do this (NSFW!). Anal missionary pose seen in porn videos. The pose allows women to get a kick out of their partner's expressions and minor complaints, and can also help improve communication about what feels good and what doesn't.

3. Relax, communicate, and take your time.
Anal penetration can be scary, especially for unaccustomed straight men. Anal sex is much easier when the recipient is relaxed -- tension makes everything more difficult. It's normal for men to have a little pain/discomfort at first, but it should be tolerable and soon go away.If the patient continues to feel pain, stop immediately. If this is the first time, a little blood is normal, so don't panic. Rectal tissue is very fragile, and dildos don't usually get stuck in there, so the body isn't used to it. If everyone feels comfortable and happy, the experience will be much more fun and enjoyable!