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Vibrators are perfect for your own use. Using a vibrator with your partner can take your sex life to the next level.

You may have reservations about bringing this up with your partner because you think they might have all sorts of assumptions or fears - most commonly, that they alone aren't enough for you to get pleasure out of sex with them.

People worry that sex toys will be too mechanical and make people less offensive. But they actually enhance sex, make people want to be with each other, and lead to long-distance relationships.

The potential for using vibrators during sex to improve sexual intimacy and experience across the board comes from a variety of more specific benefits.

1. More orgasms, everywhere.

If one or both of your partners have trouble reaching orgasm, sex toys have been found to increase libido, arouse and lubricate. You guessed it - the occurrence and intensity of female orgasms. For men, vibrators can improve libido, erectile function, sexual satisfaction, and orgasm. If you orgasm during sex by using a vibrator, then you orgasm during sex, period - don't think that just because you have vibratory assistance doesn't "count" as orgasm.

2. Something new.

While staying regular is good for most aspects of our lives, when it's the same thing every time, your sex life can become monotonous and you lose some of the excitement. Using vibrators during sex is a way to explore new sexy loves and feelings, as well as a way to get to know each other's bodies in a new way.

3. Reduce stress at work.

It's hard to completely "lose yourself" during sex when you're trying to fully feel it in your head while wondering if your partner is enjoying what you're doing. Using a vibrator during sex gives you the opportunity to outsource a lot of your sexual skills and focus solely on your partner's or your own well-being. Just make sure you're still doing what you're doing with the vibrator -- otherwise, it can feel mechanical. Want a simple solution? Try using a vibrating rooster ring. Do you really want to lose yourself? Try a hands-free vibrator - it usually does a good job of stimulating the clitoris during penetrative sex.

4. Encourage conversation.

In general, talking about vibrators can promote better communication between you and your partner. As with anything to do with sex, it is essential to constantly greet the person when you go. Using a vibrator together, especially for the first time, means excellent practice in using your words (plus body language) to convey how things feel.

A study conducted by WeVibe found that nearly half of the partners who participated in the survey who used vibrators said they regularly communicated about sex and other topics. Among couples who didn't use vibrators, only a third reported the same level of openness and communication. Although causation or correlation is not certain, the use of vibrators in companionship and communication is inseparable.

5. Increase the bond between the couple.

Adding a vibrator to your sex mix can boost your relationship with your partner. Anything that adds more fun to your experience will increase intimacy, but since vibrators usually require additional communication and joint experimentation, you'll only get closer in the process.

Not to mention adding "control" to the timing and style of the orgasm, giving you the opportunity to be together and even look each other in the eye as it happens.

There is nothing more exciting than to vibrate together.