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Masturbation is an important (and we think necessary) element of self-care, so it's worth finding a comfortable way to be with yourself even if you stay in close contact with others. In times of high stress and anxiety, masturbation would be a valuable outlet to create even a moment of relaxation and calm.

As you continue to pursue your much-needed "me time," we have a few things to keep in mind.

Think about the time and space you can give yourself.

Anyone who has tried to complete a big project while juggling routine work and other obligations knows that sometimes meeting your goals means creating a lot of time that wasn't there before. Early in the morning, late at night, when the family goes out for a walk, or when your partner goes grocery shopping.

Time exists, even if it means cohabitants are still technically present, but they are mentally and physically distracted (think: a one-hour conference call or a class at home).

The bedroom may be the best choice for privacy for most people, but you may also need to use space wisely. The key: a locked door. While bathrooms aren't the sexiest of places, they're also the one place where we can almost always guarantee true privacy (though parents of young children would disagree). If you feel like you need a lure, you can make it look like you're going for a face mask or painting your nails.

Masturbating in the shower every day is a good option. Many people do it at home, regardless of the level of privacy. As long as your vibrator is waterproof.

Pursue efficiency.

Generally speaking, we want you to play as long as you want. However, slow releases are often the most satisfying releases, rather than immediately starting a quick fix.

For 15 minutes alone, find a middle ground between the two.

Foreplay isn't just about partner sex. If no one is staring at you, you can warm up by reading or listening to something pornographic (with headphones on) - novels, audio porn, Weeknd music, anything that puts you in a good mood! If that's not an option, let your mind wander and dream sexy dreams.

The point is, before you actually do your thing in private, you've been awakened, so that by the time you can use your vibrator or your fingers, you've satisfied yourself in some way.

Pay attention to the noise level.

If you've flown before, you probably know how loud it is when you fly and when you finish. Obviously, if you often make loud, involuntary noises, you should do your best to suppress them, such as keeping a pillow nearby to cover your face.

If you try to control it, you can also turn it into a fantasy. Masturbating while playing out a sexy scene in your head where you have to be quiet is like sneaking out to pick up someone at a party outside your door.

If you like to masturbate while watching porn, wear headphones. This time, keep noise-cancelling noises behind you, so you can hear anyone approaching you and can unconsciously control the volume of the noise you make. Perhaps you only need to wear one of the two earplugs to remain aware of your surroundings.

If you masturbate with anything that vibrates, be aware that vibrations make noise. Invest in a quiet rechargeable vibrator -- battery-powered motors often vibrate erratically

It's okay to tell white lies in order to gain privacy.

In addition to the aforementioned excuse for taking too long to the bathroom, you can forgive yourself for saying that you need a personal phone call, perhaps with a therapist or at work.

Tell your partner that you need to take an extra long shower today because you're feeling stressed, and ask if they can babysit themselves.

You could also say, "I really need some time to myself this morning/afternoon/evening." [0:00-0:00] Can I book the dormitory for relaxation? "Most likely, the person you're making the arrangements with will also feel relieved to have some time to themselves.

Don't feel guilty about wanting alone time (and using it to masturbate).

You probably don't call jogging a "little thing" once in a while, so don't say that about masturbation either. Both are examples of beneficial regular exercise that promotes self-care, releases endorphins, and relieves anxiety and stress.

Even if you live with the person you are having sex with, masturbation is still normal. It is unrealistic for partners to pressure each other as the only way to achieve sexual satisfaction. Maintaining a regular masturbation routine, both together and apart, can keep everyone happy and healthy.

Remember: During the COVID-19 health crisis, you are your safest sexual partner. Think of masturbation as a very interesting civic duty that we're lucky to have.