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It's not surprising that women are generally more choosy when it comes to choosing a partner (sorry, not sorry). That's because of basic supply and demand -- women are more popular with suitors (and women's suits) than men.

As a result, women have the freedom to be critical and find reasons to say "no" when dating and choosing a partner. Here's what you can do to improve your chances!

1. Dirty environment (yes, it means cleaning time!)

If you and your woman decide to stay home at night (or go out, maybe back to your place), creating a friendly environment without distractions is essential. Take an hour or two to put things away, change the sheets, change the air in the room, add some scent. How you keep your home is a reflection of your lifestyle, and you don't want her distracted by the smell of your dirty clothes or the beer bottle on your end table.

2. Not talking about hygiene (bad breath, body odor, body hair)

There are a million reasons why practicing good hygiene is a good idea that might turn your partner off.

Your breath: Be sure to brush, floss, and rinse your mouth before your appointment. Also avoid tasty foods such as garlic, Onions and fish. Not only do they affect your breath (no matter how well you brush), but they also affect the smell of your genitals.

Your Body odor: If possible, take a good shower before your date (urinary tract infections are real). This means cleaning behind your ears and between your toes (because you never know what she might want to try). Use a soap with a long lasting fragrance.

Your body hair: The trick to body hair is to make sure it's the "best" on a date - so whatever it means to you! If you shave a lot, shave before your date. Trim if you normally trim. If it's all natural, make sure it's soft and beautiful. That means shampoo, conditioner and beard oil.

3. Not ready.

It has become an informal understanding in American culture that men are condom carriers. While trends are changing and more women are carrying condoms and dental pads, it's a good idea to have protection and lube ready at the same time. After all, the night is never the same once you have to stop and run.

Tip: Keep a variety of condoms with you to keep your woman's options open! She may be allergic to latex, or she may not like barbed condoms.

4. Not listening

Nothing makes a woman more interested in sex than not listening to her before or during sex. It's important to be aware of her body language during a conversation to avoid speaking too quickly (or too slowly) to her current mood and style. It's simple: if she doesn't look happy, there's something wrong. There's a fine line between advice and coercion, so if your woman says, "No" or "I'm not sure" -- avoid and stop what you're doing. If you're going to try bundling, make sure you have safe words ready and stick to them.

5. Being selfish in bed

Selfishness in bed is anathema to almost all women. It means you only do what you like and you don't care about this woman's feelings (or even hurt). Selfish partners often don't care if their woman has an orgasm or not, and don't suggest new things that might attract or please her. A great way to be the partner who gives more is to know in advance what she likes in bed. Does she like it hard and fast or slow? Does she like to bring toys? Does she like oral sex? Some women may be shy about talking openly about what they like, so listen to her body language, too!