Squirting dildo

"Doesn't it go without saying to orgasm with a dildo?" I heard you ask.

Well, let me tell you, for many people, things are not as simple as they first seem.

There's nothing weird or bad about simply sticking a dildo in a hole and not achieving orgasm, although if you can, go for it! However, some of us may need to be more creative and apply some technical tweaks to achieve the Big O.

So, here are my tips on how to orgasm with a dildo, including dildo techniques, different types of dildos to try, areas to try and stimulate, locations to test, and ways to keep you engrossed in the game.

This is a fairly neutral guide, so I will stick to giving you tips and techniques for vaginal and anal use and let you decide which one you want to try. Go learn how to ejaculate with a dildo!

Repair technology

A big part of learning how to ovulate with a dildo and make it work for you is figuring out how to operate it and make it feel really good.

It's not a cure-all -- different people have different bodies and different sensitivities, so if a method that drives a friend crazy doesn't work for you, don't worry, just keep trying!

Here are some tips to get you started:

In "n" Out

And insertion of the vagina or anus is the standard way to use dildos, which can make some people very happy! When it's near the opening, try using a textured dildo to stimulate all of your super-sensitive nerve endings.

As a variation on this technique, you can try doing more swing exercises. Point the dildo toward the back wall of the vagina as you insert it, and use a spatula motion as it pushes further into the vagina. This works especially well with more flexible dildos or curved ones.

Short and shallow

Emphasis is placed on the opening and the first part of the vagina or anus, in and out with a shorter trip. Not everyone likes having a dildo glued to their cervix or inserted too deep into their buttocks. Sticking with shallow needles can stimulate your sensitive areas without being irritated.

Go deep

On the other hand, if you crave those deeper feelings and super-deep orgasms, you can certainly opt for a long, deep jab.

Using a dildo with a significantly pointed tip will allow you to really enjoy the feel of your vagina or anus, but you should try to avoid dildos that are too soft or too elastic so that they don't bend too much when inserted.

Do the twist

Take advantage of the texture of your dildo and spin your dildo inside you. You can tease yourself by turning the tip of your vagina or dildo near the vaginal opening, or maximize this sensation by exerting force and twisting at the same time.

Using dildos with too wide an arc or too sharp an Angle may not be appropriate for this, so stick with straighter toys.

Move your body.

Give your arms a break and let your body do the talking!

There are several ways to do this: either hold the dildo in your hand and start rotating or swinging it with your hips so that it touches different parts of your vagina or anus, or buy a suction dildo that can be glued to a surface so you can ride hands-free.

The standstill

Sometimes it's not the movement of the dildo that excites us, it's how we feel inside. Slow down, keep your dildo still, and just enjoy the feeling of it filling you - you can even use your hands to stimulate your clitoris, penis, nipple, or more at the same time.

This works especially well with slightly larger dildos, as long as they are still comfortable in your body.