Vibrator for women

Whether it's your wife, girlfriend, or someone you just met yesterday, using a vibrator will increase your enjoyment and bring a new and exciting element to your sex life. When it comes to choosing the perfect toy, we have some tips.

Whether it's your first time buying a sex toy, or your millionth time buying a sex toy (if so, can we see your collection?). "If you want to spice up your heterosexual life, here are some basic parameters.

1.Start with the conversation

Whether it's our recommended 36 deeper sexual intimacy questions, or a casual "Want to try a vibrator? Great sex starts with great communication.

2.Choose a sex toy that works right now

Studies show that couples typically switch positions at least twice -- if you're going to use this vibrator or toy during sex, you'll need something without complicated Settings or hard plastic. Soft silicone is an excellent choice for versatility.

3.Buy a charging toy and remember to charge it once a week (or more!).

There's nothing worse than a toy with a dead battery.

4.If this is your first time, focus on stimulating the clitoris

If your sex toy tour starts with a butt plug, we'll be impressed. But we thought it best to err on the side of caution and make sure from the start that she had a strong orgasm with the wonderful clitoral vibrator.

G-spot vibrators are great, but if you're going to have sex while you're using a vibrator, you better have your dick doing G-spot stimulation.

5.We know it may be tempting, but if you're adding a vibrator to the mixture for the first time, avoid rooster rings (for now).

Vibrating rooster rings are great, but they can be awkward (and miss points). They are located at the base of the penis so that when you have sex, the ring touches her clitoris. This method doesn't always work so well because people (and penises and vaginas) come in so many unique shapes and sizes.

6.If you're in trouble, lean on a man's best friend: the dog pose.

If you're fumbling with your new toy, the puppy pose is often a decent one, and it can give her the space and balance to try out the vibrator on the clitoris.

7.It's easy to walk.

There are some badass vibrators (Hello, Hitachi Wand? But if this is the first time the two of you have used vibrators, carrying a laptop into the bedroom may not be the best option. Intimidation is not a good way to get a better orgasm. We've put together a great list of vibrators for you, with dozens to choose from.

8.Know how you will use your new toy

Read our guide to why you should use vibrators with your partner and bring vibrators into your relationship.

9.Most important: Start slowly.

When you first use a vibrator during sex, start slowly and naturally. You can even ask her to show you how to use a vibrator on herself. You can also use a vibrator on her while she masturbates to you and let it all go from there.

That's all there is. Congratulations on a better sex life, and here's to better orgasms.