Sex has a way of becoming typical. Typical sex means you've figured out the best way to enjoy your partner and orgasm without pulling out all the stops. But what happens when you find yourself yawning in the middle of a routine, or wondering what to eat afterward?
Sounds like you need a break. Unlike doing the dishes, there's more than one way to spice up your bedroom. Once you've established significant trust, you and your partner can embark on a journey of exploration and excitement that goes beyond the typical night in bed. Sex, by nature, is meant to be enjoyed, providing the pleasure of stinging your toes and a satisfying release.
Improving your sex life doesn't mean you have to spend a lot of money or agree to situations you're not comfortable with. In fact, before you explore anything, it's important to communicate with your partner first and understand what each other's needs and desires are. Skipping this step can have disastrous consequences, so be sure to ask. You'll be surprised by some of the answers you get!
The next thing is to discover how comfortable you feel exploring different parts of your body and different ways of being aroused. There may be situations you can't accept, and it will make you feel satisfied and comfortable to voice your opinion, no matter what happens. As communication and comfort are established, better sex becomes not only an option, but a reality.
When you and your partner are on the same page, the fun can begin! Whether you need an update or just want to try something new, we've put together a list of fun and easy ways to spice up your bedroom and explore your sensual delights.
1. Time spent having sex
If you're the kind of woman who locks up her private parts during her period, it might be time to find the key. Periods have been shrouded in stigma, but once you peel back the layers of this very natural phenomenon, you may find the behavior enjoyable and extremely sexy. There are also many benefits to period sex. The irrational fear that abandoning your partner will make you nauseous is replaced by the very real fact that you can reduce cramps, ease moods and shorten cycles by having sex. Did we mention the natural lubricants that make this feeling even more exciting? It's time to get a little saucy.
2. Introduce toys to your sex life
Sex toys were not created to make you giggle awkwardly when you see them online. Contraptions with strange shapes and bright colors can take your orgasm to the next level, while also encouraging your partner to be an integral part of the experience. After talking about comfort, you can enter the world of toys for two. Lovers' sex toys appeal to the senses while also bringing you closer and enhancing intimacy. If the idea is overwhelming and you don't know where to start, there are also vibrators for beginners that will meet your speed and needs. Whatever you choose, toys are the perfect device to seamlessly integrate into your bedroom life.
3. Play with your partner's prostate
Waking up the prostate isn't as much trouble as locating the G-spot, but it takes a bit of courage to find yourself that far below it. Fortunately, your sex life will be a lot less awkward if you know how to communicate with people you trust and can do so comfortably. The prostate game offers a different way of experiencing pleasure besides penile ejaculation. Even better, prostatic orgasms are not dependent on sperm release and can occur more than once without any recovery time. To do this, you need to stimulate the prostate through anal penetration or perineum. When the prostate is aroused, it expands and feels like a walnut, and that special feeling is enough to let you know you're in the right place at the right time.
5. Go on a sex show
A dinner and a movie used to get you to first base, but a dinner and a sexy show got you to hit home runs. A PG-rated act can be fun, but a slide or strip act can satisfy you in more ways than one. Filling your eyes with the sexy moves of a professional dancer is like visual foreplay, one that ignits the imagination and brings new light to your partner. It can also inspire you to take these new steps in the bedroom. Looking without touching is an aphrodisiac of titillation and seduction that will never engage you in the action. Wake you up from a distance and you may find it hard to get home in time.
6. Star in your own movie
Sex tapes are not just for celebrities and porn stars, nor do they need to be made with high-quality equipment. Making a movie is a great way to spice up the bedroom with minimal effort. The best way to capture memories is to get your partner in the mood first. Once they're totally into something, slide your camera in and record it. Passionate moments become more passionate when you know you can play them back later and evoke them again. To take it to another level, record a few minutes of foreplay and watch it together during intercourse. This external physical experience will lead you to orgasm before you even know what's going on.
7. Experiment and role-play
Halloween costumes are not limited to October 31. You can easily transform them into an adventurous evening romp. Role-playing lets the imagination wander, creating new characters and situations, and tapping into unspoken desires. Whether you turn into a firefighter, a sexy nurse, a construction worker or a vampire, the options to explore are endless and offer you unlimited experiences to re-imagine and spice up your sex life. Cosplay is also a great technique to roll around in foreplay and swear words, leaving you free to become someone else, if only until you arrive.
8. Switch positions
Did someone say vacation? There's nothing more romantic and fun than a beach getaway or weekend getaway. Sometimes, you have to literally break your surroundings to reconnect and recharge. Since you're not at home or in a familiar place, you may be open to trying different things. Let your environment release your inhibitions and open up your sensory experiences. No matter how long you choose to escape reality, these few days of happiness will produce lasting extreme happiness and add fun to your relationship.
9. Get an erotic massage
If you want to learn how to spice up a relationship in the easiest, most emotional way possible, try erotic massage. Replace your TV program with a few candles and soft music. By gently touching your partner and relieving tension, you will find that they are relaxed enough to try new things (choose from the list above). Combining a gentle touch of essential oils and cooking oils can get the rest of your body involved, making massage more of a segway combined with something else enjoyable.
10. Watch porn together
Millions of people are watching porn at any given moment. Most of the time, this is a solo activity, but it's not necessary. Instead of Netflix and relaxation, try Pornhub and thrills. Pick a movie that you both want to see and see how your partner makes you feel when you're stimulated by the movie. If someone is around you, your feelings will probably be enhanced so much that you may not even finish watching the video.
The next time you find yourself in the same position all the time, know that there are many ways to improve your sex life. With proper communication and understanding, you and your partner can take your bedroom orgasm to the next level.