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If you love the feel and intense stimulation of vibrators, but want to avoid numbness or tingling, then don't give them up!

There are a large number of sex toys on the market, such as vibrators, which can provide many different feelings. Here are our tips for finding a vibrator that feels great...

When we talk about the vibrations produced by sex toys, we usually describe them as a buzz or a rumble. Vibrations exist in the spectrum, with high-frequency "buzzing" vibrations at one end and low-frequency "rumbling" vibrations at the other.

Very buzzing vibrations irritate the surface of the skin, and many people experience itching or tingling. Rumbling vibrations, on the other hand, can penetrate deeper tissue and usually do not cause the same numbness. So if you're struggling with the (temporary) loss of sensitivity caused by your vibrator, try switching to one that vibrates more.

Without trying, it's hard to tell if the vibrator has more buzz or rumble. That's why we include buzz/rumble ratings in all Bible reviews in bed! You can also try checking reviews at linear toy stores like Orgasm Angel to see what others say.

Vibration-free toys of choice

If vibration in any form isn't for you, then there are plenty of other sex toys that have different ways of helping you reach the Big O.

One option is clitoral stimulation, or clitoral suckers. Instead of using vibrations, these innovative little toys form a sealing ring around the clitoris and use air pulses to push a drum in the suction cup's "mouth." This will send indirect stimulation waves to the clitoris and penetrate deep into the internal structure of the clitoris network.

So why the myth?

We'll never know who started the rumor that vibrators cause sensitivity loss, but there are several reasons the rumor has persisted.

Unfortunately, some people see vibrators as a threat. This is partly due to dislike of the idea of women controlling their own bodies and happiness. Vibrators are the key for many women to release their libido and enjoy sex. Too many Puritan thinkers thought this was a bad thing. A myth was born to prevent women and vulva owners from "overusing" vibrators.

But I will do my best to convince people that I am right. Some of the threats people feel from vibrators also come from insecurity. Many couples, especially cis men, use their partner's vibrator as a sexual rival -- they compete with it to please their partner.

But the truth is, vibrators aren't just for masturbation! The vibrator is just a tool that can help provide the stimulation you need to orgasm. It's not your partner's enemy, it's their ally!

Try talking together about your vibrator and how you want to use it. It helps them see what it is. It helps in a way. Maybe you can find and buy one together, or get a wearable couple vibrator that you can both benefit from!