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A lot of women say they don't have illusions, but we all know that's not true. We may have a hard time expressing our fantasies, or we may feel more awkward discussing them because of some social restrictions, but they are definitely there.

Here are the top 5 most common fantasies for women, according to recent research:

1. The stripping

Almost every woman (and certainly every woman I've spoken to) has some form of striptease fantasy. The idea of being the center of everyone's sexual attention by wearing petite clothes and having men stare at you is hot. We all acknowledge that.

2. Submit to partners

The idea of being tied down, of letting our partner do whatever he or she wants, can only take a toll on us. Sometimes we take it a step further and imagine ourselves being lightly whipped or tickled.

3. Lead partners

But then again, we do have the opposite side, which is we want control, we want to get what we want, when we want it, how we get it. Plus, we look great in black leather.

4. Have sex with a stranger

Less common, but certainly something most of us have thought about. There's something super erotic about being able to act out every fantasy we've ever dreamed of, with no strings attached, no fear of judgment, knowing that this is the person we'll never see again.

5. Watch or participate in sex between girls

This may come as a surprise, but apparently many women (even those who are considered completely heterosexual) fantasize about watching female-on-female action. Many of them go further and secretly want to be part of the action. Maybe it has to do with all the toys that are usually involved. Or maybe we just want to know what it's like to be with someone who understands our body's needs as well as we do.